The Power of Mindset

This offering explores how mindset influences the way we experience ourselves, our challenges, and our lives. Rather than focusing on positive thinking or self-improvement, this reflection invites awareness of thought patterns, inner dialogue, and the body’s role in shaping perception. Through a gentle, grounded approach, participants are guided to notice how beliefs form, how they impact emotional and nervous system responses, and how small shifts in awareness can create more flexibility and self-trust. This experience supports learning to meet challenges with curiosity, compassion, and presence allowing growth to unfold naturally, from the inside out.

Selda Turker

5/8/20242 min read

The Power of MindsetThe Power of Mindset
The Power of Mindset: How Your Thoughts Shape Your Experience

Mindset is the way our thoughts and beliefs shape how we experience life. It influences how we approach challenges, how we speak to ourselves, and how we make meaning of what happens to us. The same situation can feel limiting or transformative, depending on the lens we use.

Fixed Mindset & Growth Mindset

Psychologist Carol Dweck describes two primary ways of thinking.

A fixed mindset assumes that abilities and skills are unchangeable. This belief can lead to avoiding challenges, fearing mistakes, and holding back from growth.

A growth mindset recognizes that learning, effort, and experience allow us to develop over time. Struggle is not a failure, but a natural part of the process.

Within the ESP approach, a growth mindset does not claim that “anything is possible.” Instead, it offers something more grounded:
I can begin where I am and learn through experience.

How Mindset Shapes Our Lives

Our mindset influences:

  • How we interpret events

  • How we respond to difficulty

  • Whether we give up or stay engaged

  • How open we are to learning

A growth-oriented mindset supports:

  • Flexibility

  • Self-compassion

  • Emotional resilience

  • Sustainable motivation

A Simple Story

Lena loved dancing but spent years believing she wasn’t “naturally talented.” She accepted this belief as truth and held herself back.

Over time, she realized the issue wasn’t talent—it was permission. She began practicing, making mistakes, receiving feedback, and continuing anyway. A year later, she auditioned and was accepted—not because she was the best, but because she was willing to learn.

This is the power of mindset in action.

Working With Mindset

In ESP, mindset work is not about forcing positivity. It is invitational and awareness-based.

It begins by:

  • Noticing your thoughts

  • Softening the way you speak to yourself

  • Asking, “What is this teaching me?”

  • Taking small, intentional steps

  • Staying present with the process

The goal is not to think differently, but to relate differently.

Why Mindset Matters

Mindset is the lens through which we view life. When the lens shifts, our relationship to experience shifts with it.

A growth-oriented mindset does not promise control over outcomes. Instead, it reminds us:
We may not control everything, but we can choose how we respond.

That choice is where real empowerment lives.